how will i move on after a 3long years relationship?!

teach me how to move on?!

Permalink Reply by SESHNS on August 11, 2008 at 6:54pm: i don't know.... i have never had that happen... 6 months was my longest relationship and i basically delt with it by goin out and having fun... hanging out with friends and stuff...; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SESHNS on August 11, 2008 at 6:55pm: I know. Move to Phoenix and join a swim team?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Jase on August 12, 2008 at 9:19pm: For me.. my ex-fiance and I were together for 2 years. I tried dating a few women after her but it wasn't the same cause when I saw them I saw her. Basically you work on getting through the day ad go day by day. Time helps after awhile. It took me forever to get over Emily cause I truly loved her. Hanging out with frinds and the support they offered helped a lot and just getting out and doing things instead of staying home. You heal eventually, dust yourself off and keep moving forward, even if you don't want to. What more you can do? There is no real quick fix nor answer. You do what you can, heal when your ready, don't look back and take that step forward ad see where you end up. Obvisouly they were not ment for you and not the one, don't stop looking, but keep moving forward and keep looking. You will find whom you were ment for. Sure it hurts having your heart broken.. even shattered at times, but keep trying. One day everthing will fall into plce like it should...; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by mIKE cONDON on October 3, 2008 at 1:13pm: All could try and tell you so many things on how to recover from it , but i dont want to waste your time...But i will do though is tell you that just look at it as a painful experience that you should learn by and use to guide yourself for next time when you ask yourself if this guy is good for me? Never forget about how it was and the way it made your feel.. Feelings are very major when in comes to learning about other people? What im trying to say is that..Always apply what you've learned for the next time and try to make the best decision for yourself to avoid or add to your relationship! AND NEVER HOLD THINGS IN...THAT IS THE WORST THING TO DO IN A RELATIONSHIP...IF HE MAKES YOU MAD...TELL HIM....IF HE MAKES YOU SAD...LET HIM KNOW...AND VISE VERSA!...i USE TO DO THAT AND IT ONLY MADE ME EXPLODE INSIDE AND CREATE THINGS IN MY HEAD THAT WERE DAMAGING IN THE RELATIONSHIP!

AND OF COARSE...LONG THINGS LIKE THAT ALWAYS TAKE TIME...SO JUST GIVE IT THAT....sOMETHING FOR A START I FIGURE?....; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SnowBunny311 on October 9, 2008 at 12:25pm: hey girl ya move on... dont dwell on some asshole.. keep urself bz with fun things and fun people .. and dont stay home and bum... cuz if u do ur probably gonna end up thinking "omg.. i love him still things will be diff this time if we get back together " witch is alwayz wrong lol if it doesnt work out the first time its probably not gonna work the 2nd or 3rd .. u know .. i donno keep ur head up ur young and beautiful .. :)
peace N much love form another broken heart; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Sherri on October 9, 2008 at 11:03pm: SnowBunny is right...You Are Young & Beautiful...Heres my advise...
The longest relationship I've ever had was a Year & 1/2... ((I'm Single Now))
The ONLY way I got over him was by 1. Getting rid of all his stuff. Everything He ever gave me, wrote me..Everything.
2. I cut ALL forms of communication with him. I deleted him from my myspace, facebook, email adress book, That MAY seem extreme but again like snowbunny said.... If you think about him thoughts will start coming back. And those things May Not be thoughts but if you see his updates and what not You Will start thinking about him. And then try to convince your self that things can some how work-out again...
3. Get your friends behind you on this...You need to be surrounded by people who will stand by you and understand you.
4. Get out and have fun.
5. Do Not Take Him Back, I Don't know the circumstances obviously but Hun if you broke up after 3 YEARS...It had to have been something big...

Ya it suxs ass....You feel like you lost apart of yourself that you wont ever be able to get back.
But thats kinda how it goes with relationships....
Love is a Battlefield......

Keep Strong..
Much Love from Another Broken Heart Babe.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by john on October 15, 2008 at 6:44am: find new fun guys!!! stress fun and while you are doing that a speecial one will come along!! the key is dont settle until you find the perfect one!! just have fun til then!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by kyle hubbard on November 5, 2008 at 9:27pm: dont listen to that sherri girl mostly
but if he was a major dick then just dont talk to him
doing all that stuff she said will just make you hate him more and think about him more
but yeah just go out and party and go boarding and all that shit.

gnar gnar; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Ellery Young on January 1, 2009 at 10:59pm: um sorry if this sounds a little unsensitive, but may i remind you this is not a dating advice site. i just think it's kind of funny that this was posted? go talk to your girls idk, and then go snowboarding. thats all i got to say; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by SESHNS on January 2, 2009 at 8:33am: Hahaha Ellery, you crack me up!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by S.I.N on January 6, 2009 at 8:15pm: I'm with you on this one.
My sympathy though.; ▶ Reply to This

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